Sib Psychology and Counseling Service Center

**Mistakes of parents in raising children** One of the most important wrong behaviors of parents is that, regardless of its negative consequences, they argue in front of the child about the rules they have established for his upbringing or, so to speak, empty each other's backs, as a result, the child does not receive the necessary authority to carry out the orders of any of them, and his behavior will definitely show negligence and carelessness to replace a positive behavior with me. The contradictory attitude of the other parent towards the child, which is sometimes mistaken for compassion, reduces the executive power and the value of the decisive parent's work and reduces the probability of its implementation by the child to zero. Be united and agree with each other in front of your child... Before making a special rule for raising your child or making changes in your child's parenting plan, discuss with each of them about your educational and parenting plan and change your mind. Child and end the discussion when both of you (parents) have the same opinion... Never try to make the other's effort appear less in front of your child, because you will forever ruin and shake each other's image and position with your child... Choose the method of encouragement and punishment that works for both of you... The necessary authority to do the work is obtained when your child receives the same word from you... He also learns how to respect the wishes of the parents, because even if he knows that one has a different opinion from the other, if flexibility Seeing one in front of another, he learns to respect others' opinions... ##### Source: Alimoradi, Bahman; Ghafourian, Parisa... (2014)... 28 mistakes of parents in raising children... Mashhad: Publications ###### Note: The above material was prepared by the order of Sib Psychology and Counseling Service Center and its use is prohibited by mentioning the sources